Today begins Allhallowtide — the sacred trio of Halloween, All Saints Day, and All Souls Day. This season, steeped in remembrance and mystery, feels like a whisper from the veil between life and death. It is a fitting time to begin a conversation about endings. ThoughtfulDying is a companion for those ready to reflect on their mortality with courage and grace. It is a space to ask: How do I want to be remembered? How do I say goodbye to this one, wild, precious life? Across C

We do everything possible to avoid contemplating our mortality, illness, and inevitable decline. In my work, personal life, and current career, I do not have that luxury. When I began my career, my maternal grandmother once asked why I chose such a challenging path as a massage and lymphatic therapist. All I knew was that the profession chose me. From those early days over four decades ago to today, I have had the privilege of understanding the importance of a thoughtful appr

What's your plan? We meticulously plan various aspects of our lives. From the moment we learn how, we strategize our careers. We engage financial planners and advisors, prepare to purchase homes, and organize vacations. Some even schedule cosmetic enhancements. Most of us also plan for retirement and beyond. However, for the most significant event of our lives, we often fail to plan: our death. Many of us avoid considering it altogether. We tend to steer clear of the topic, a